tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34644671.post7538564541004063327..comments2023-06-28T06:46:59.447-04:00Comments on because i'm that self-indulgent: heart in a cage*vapidly vibranthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03398449436394601096noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34644671.post-58360273129744060102007-05-02T19:58:00.000-04:002007-05-02T19:58:00.000-04:00Good lord, woman. Your golden post inspired some ...Good lord, woman. Your golden post inspired some sort of wedding-inspired rant against Tiffany's and the colour blue in general. Thank you for lancing that boil.Boohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02450459427668274592noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34644671.post-17037241936172545702007-05-02T18:16:00.000-04:002007-05-02T18:16:00.000-04:00Good god. Have i been abducted? Did i miss the mem...Good god. Have i been abducted? Did i miss the memo? I don't understand. Someone, hold me.vapidly vibranthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03398449436394601096noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34644671.post-76079959887424137882007-04-30T22:06:00.000-04:002007-04-30T22:06:00.000-04:00GOLD GOLD There's so much gold in this here post....GOLD GOLD There's so much gold in this here post. Where do I begin?<BR/><BR/>The conversation you describe is being played out in every cafe from here to the moon. 28 is 'the age', and (as I have discovered) 30+ is 'the age' for procreation. Thus people can finally act upon whatever Spring-like urges (as you say the button marked 'fornicate') they may be experiencing. <BR/><BR/>And then there's another conversation - where to give birth - in a hospital or at home? How to rearrange one's finances? Where to live - (they all move out to the boon to get the bigger house they 'have' to have, and in one fell swoop isolate themselves from less-mobile and PT-dependent friends, not naming any names). Oh, and they have to have a much bigger car, because that's the done thing. <BR/><BR/>I note that all of these conversations are blissfully free of any idea of parenting, or how they actually think they're going to raise the child, but whatevs.<BR/><BR/>You're not hopelessly naiive, VV. You're just living your life without some pre-prepared, crocked up 'idea' of how it 'should' be. Go forth, fornicate and enjoy, I say!!Boohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02450459427668274592noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34644671.post-23650732346039992772007-04-30T07:24:00.000-04:002007-04-30T07:24:00.000-04:00I sure can :D I'm a pro at it. It's rather easy......I sure can :D I'm a pro at it. It's rather easy... once you learn. But it took me a long, long time.<BR/><BR/>Sorry to hear your news, Jay. Chin up (and beautiful comment)Rosannahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06087927276996432786noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34644671.post-74741861075909565252007-04-30T01:25:00.000-04:002007-04-30T01:25:00.000-04:00Rosanna, you can do that? (the artcoffee, i mean, ...Rosanna, you can do that? (the artcoffee, i mean, not marriage - if you can see yourself doing that as well, very good then (i was just generally curious as to why, is all. Not to pry or second guess anybody's intentions, of course, but more as a... survey? :))) Anyway, i took the picture from a <A HREF="http://www.caffeartjava.com" REL="nofollow">café</A> around here. Not only is it purdy to look at, it is sooooo gooooooooood. <EM>*drools*</EM> <BR/><BR/>Jay, that's what i'm told. <BR/>And i'm so very sorry to hear about your news... My best wishes are with you, for whatever that is worth... <EM>*hold hands*</EM> [unless you don't like that]vapidly vibranthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03398449436394601096noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34644671.post-53651167094315482922007-04-29T22:52:00.000-04:002007-04-29T22:52:00.000-04:00Marriage is something you either believe in or you...Marriage is something you either believe in or you don't. I lived with my husband before and I didn't think getting married would change things, but it did. It really did. And even now while it's breaking up, I don't regret it, not any of it.Jayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13158409505328990008noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34644671.post-53841391157927015412007-04-28T07:51:00.000-04:002007-04-28T07:51:00.000-04:00I am all for getting married, but I don't see it a...I am all for getting married, but I don't see it as an aim in life.<BR/><BR/>PS: Where did you find the photo of the latte art? We do that at my work :)Rosannahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06087927276996432786noreply@blogger.com